Welcome

We designed this website in honor of our beloved first-born child.

Matthew was stillborn on June 19, 2003, just one week before his due date. He was a beautiful, healthy, full-term baby. Strong evidence indicates that the cause of his death was an umbilical cord accident.

This memorial site means a great deal to us. Thank you for taking the time to visit.

See below for information on Poems for Matthew.
Matthew's Memorial Service
Bellarmine Chapel
Xavier University
July 16, 2003

Service Program
Photos of service
 
Tributes
Matthew's naming ceremony
Tree dedication
Birthday wishes
Matthew's Song
 
How Matthew is loved

Poem from his godmother
Flowers sent from afar

Poetry Project:  

I (Matthew's mother) began writing poetry in memory of Matthew in the fall of 2003. I hope to self-publish a collection of these poems. Any proceeds after publication will be donated to charities that help families suffering from infant and pregnancy loss. The organization that has helped us the most is Unite, which is based in the Philadelphia area (where we now live). A national organization which may have chapters in your area is Share.

Poems for Matthew are not yet available in published form. During the first half of 2004 I shared one poem per month on this website. Doing so helped me through the difficult months that preceded the first anniversary of our loss.
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Website launched: July 2003
Last updated: June 23, 2005